Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Guest Post: Nene Koumba in Senegal

After a relaxing, indulgent and only mildly culture shock inducing week in London, I returned to Senegal with mom in tow just in time to ring in 2012. We spent 11 days braving Senegalese transportation, catching our dinner in village and working on our tans in Dakar. She did geat and didn't complain once - setting the bar quite high for future visitors. Here's the guest post she wrote for me...

Katie and I traveled to her village the Peace Corps Volunteer way: by sept-place. This literally means seven-seat—it’s the number of spots in a small Renault station wagon.




Like most vehicles I saw in Senegal, both the odometer and speedometer had been disconnected, with the last recorded mileage at 585,549 kilometers. Our vehicle for the first leg of our two-day trip to Kolda

was hired at the garage of Pompier in Dakar. Garage would imply a structure, but this was an open-air trip marketplace where one seeks out a driver going to one’s destination, and then sits in the Renault until it fills with seven passengers (plus children on laps, who ride free). How to make friends with fellow passengers at Pompier? Do what we did, and purchase all the remaining seats, (in our case three extra) and the now-fully bought car leaves right away. Is the driver pleased? No. He’s paid extra for the baggage, which is tied to the roof. So with only two bags for five places sold, he’s grumpy. Cost per seat for the 500 kilometer trip: about $20.


One of our fellow passengers was a Senegalese teacher-trainer who was heading out to the provinces. The other was a young man of uncertain nationality reading a book by the Dalai Lama in Spanish. French was our common language, though the Afro-pop on the radio drowned out much conversation. After an hour or so the music became less noticeable. Outside of Dakar the dry-scrub countryside of Senegal north of the Gambia River was visible in the form of flat, dry land punctuated by baobab trees. Animal life consisted of free


-range donkeys, cows, sheep, goats and chickens as we passed through villages. A few vultures circle high overhead or roost in the larger trees. A pair of disturbingly large monkeys streak across a field as the traffic passes. The excitement of the day is provided by the condition of the road, the main paved route north of the Gambia River between Dakar and Tambacounda, the midpoint in our journey, where we will spend a night. Potholes of all shapes and depths appear at fairly regular intervals. The driver prefers not to slow down, but to play an elaborate game of chicken for several hours. He calculates the shortest, flattest route around the trucks, bikes, donkey carts called charettes, pedestrians, livestock and deep potholes. Sometimes it’s quickest to two-wheel it onto the dirt shoulder; others it’s best to plunge ahead. “I don’t look, Mom,” advises Katie from the back seat.


It’s hot, dry, dusty. The heat and sun are mitigated by the black muslim curtains hung around the back and side windows of the Renault. Sleep is possible, and then there is the PCV solution: an I-Pod filled with NPR podcasts. I catch up on “Fresh Air” and “Feakonomics.” Katie’s alone in the far back seat, enjoying videos via her hidden Netbook with earphones. Best not to flash electronics around. We arrive in eight hours.

We head to the Hotel Niji, the best in town. The restaurant and pool area are simple and pleasant, though the rooms upstairs have the look of a third-world fugitive’s safehouse. Outside groups of Talibe (TA-lee-bay) boys hunt for alms with their yellow margarine-tub begging bowls.


Poor families give their sons—ages seven through fourteen—to men who will feed and instruct them in Islam. Part of their work is to beg much of the day, usually in cities far from their families. Katie gives them food, never money. When I later inquire about the potential for abuse I’m told it is a choice made by families who cannot feed their sons.

We hunt for a cab the next morning, and they are suspiciously absent from the dirt streets. We take a horse-drawn charette to the Tambacounda garage and learn the problem.

Drivers are striking to protest the $8 a gallon fuel cost, which has recently risen. No cars to Katie’s village can be hired that day. Rocks are being thrown at drivers on the roads. We’re back at the Niji for another 24 hours. There is nothing to do, see or buy in dusty Tambacounda. Here again, technology saves the day. I continue my reading of the Steve Jobs biography on my I-Pad, and then watch the entire season of “Homeland” on Katie’s Netbook.


The following day we are successful—Katie pulls strings to hire a small pick-up truck, with a pleasant, less-aggressive driver. I don’t mind the second-hand Marlboro smoke, as it serves to mask a mix of other smells. Katie is then asked the usual question: “Have a husband?” And she gives her usual reply, “No. But my father wants 50 cows for me.” She’s too costly for our driver; a typical dowry is the value of one cow. Our trip is uneventful, and then we are flagged down by a man in military uniform. Should I be worried? No. It’s the “bush mail” system at work. The soldier needs a package dropped off some 20 minutes drive down the road. He doesn’t know the driver, but trusts it will be delivered, and it is. After three hours and 100 kilometers we arrive in Sare Sara, Katie’s village. What follows could be called “Friends: the PCV Episode.” We are met by Sharon and Dave, PC colleagues who live relatively nearby.


They’ve biked over to welcome us and catch up on PC gossip. The Kolda region’s PCVs seem to have an admirable support system, facilitated by cell phone connectivity, a comfortable regional house and frequent bike trips. We share lunch, made by Khady Diamanka, the mother in Katie’s host family. It’s fried fish balls over rice, with an excellent brown sauce. As we’re guests we get large spoons (vs. hands), but otherwise eat Senegal-style, seated on a mat and sharing a large aluminum pan. Etiquette requires no use of the left hand, and sticking to one’s own roughly defined section of the bowl. Also, conversation during the process of eating is frowned upon. One eats and then conversation recommences. All future lunches and dinners will be a variant on this formula. Rice, or pounded millet or corn meal fills the bowl. Then fish, chicken, or peanut sauce is placed on top.


I’ve reflected on my visit to Sare Sara, on what life is like for those who live on a few dollars a day. What I saw were strong extended families, and women who work from dawn to the moonlit nights. It’s said that babies are carried “a year in front; two in back,” and this is true. Infants are nursed on demand for two years, and are usually wrapped around their mother’s or aunt’s or sister’s back with two rectangular lengths of cloth. That constant connection makes them quite content. Once they are two-year-old walkers their independence begins. Except for a daily bath, which involves vigorous scrubbing by mom, they are free, and are expected to entertain themselves with friends, sibs and the free-range livestock. Cooking fires, well openings, animal droppings, road traffic and other hazards seem to be avoided with little maternal intervention. Mom is pounding grain, killing a chicken, scaling fish, hand washing garments, shelling peanuts, planting a garden, or harvesting hibiscus flowers, and has no time to hover.

Omar Diamanka, Katie’s host dad, is a local mover, fixer, entrepreneur and café owner.



From dawn to evening he’s running his roadside café, serving breakfast of peppery bean-paste on bread and tea, or fruit slices at mid-day, to travelers, mostly truckers. Many other men in the village seem to be less gainfully employed, and are found conversing at the mosque, or outside Café Omar. Early January is neither planting nor harvest season, so there’s less work for the men.

What there is always time for is greeting, and here I see Katie’s (aka Koumba) popularity. “Koumba!” is called from all sides as we enter a family compound. I was taught various greetings appropriate for the time of day: “A fini” or “Jarama” and then the all-purpose “Jamtan.” My mix-ups are cause for giggles. Everyone shakes hands, and looks you straight in the eye—it’s endearing, not formal. Omar has christened me “Hawa Kunde,” his mother’s name, and I have the fun of being the “tokara” (TOK-ara) or namesake, of several “Hawas” in the village. This gains me bonus points during the meet ‘n’ greet festivities. I see that Katie is respected, valued and genuinely liked in Sare Sara. Her Pulaar is now advanced enough to encompass good-natured jokes and necessary bargaining.

I see Katie’s connection with the young mothers of the village while I help out at a monthly baby-weighing.


The scale is hung in the branch of a mango tree, and Katie records the little squirmers’ weights, checking them against a standard growth chart.



My assistance involves taking photographs of the mothers with their infants. Later Katie will use the pictures as an incentive for future weighings.


Meanwhile many women have gathered to process hibiscus-flower heads that were harvested that day. I assist with the stripping of the fleshy red leaves (to make bisap tea) and saving of the seed-heads. My competence here pleasantly surprises some. We return to Katie’s home compound for a daily afternoon rest, reading time and the daily bucket bath. Dinner is late, after sunset.

After dinner around the fire we sat on low stools or a woven bench and enjoyed the peace and the moonlight. The women are finally at rest, their work over. There is no television or radio, no bills to pay, nothing to fix, no email to read, no preparations for the next day. The serenity of those nights of fireside conversation remains with me. I see why my daughter loves Africa.

Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Approved!

Hi friends,

I just got word that my well improvement grant was approved. You can check out the project specs here: http://appropriateprojects.com/node/944. Unfortunately the timing couldn't be worse since I'll be away from site until mid-January but this means I'll definitely have work to do post-vacation.

Happy December!

kp

Friday, November 18, 2011

Angst Revisited

After thinking about my “crazy train” post, hearing from other volunteers and having a particularly grumpy day in village, I realized that the irrational anger that flares up from time to time is actually something I have experienced before life in the Peace Corps. The emotion I recognize isn’t the anger triggered by a random guy hissing in the market (which I think is actually 100% valid, if somewhat blown out of proportion) but it’s the frustration I sometimes feel with my host family. They’re great, so let me explain.

My recent grumpy day was triggered by a seemingly innocent gesture – my family calling me to breakfast. Now, I don’t eat breakfast at home because 1) I don’t like Senegalese breakfast (it’s either my least favorite item – mooni – or partially reheated dinner) and 2) I don’t get to make any decisions in village regarding what, when or how much to eat so this is my little way to declare a modicum of independence. On a handful of occasions – usually when I’m being lazy and stay in bed late – I have eaten at home, but usually I head downtown for beans, bread and café (condensed milk and hot water). On this particular day, I just wasn’t in the mood to be told what to do but I obliged and drank the mooni.

After breakfast I went behind my house to do some gardening, hungry and slightly peeved. My war against the weeds isn’t going in my favor, but after an hour it was looking better. For no sane reason I like to keep a few weed bushes around for appearances, to pretend that my backyard is actually landscaped and not a forgotten wasteland. After trimming down my lawn with a machete – a process only slightly more effective than mowing your lawn with a butter knife – my dad came home to ask why I hadn’t come for breakfast. He then proceeded to grab my tools and rip up every bush I’d strategically left behind and to chuck them over the fence. No using those for compost.

This is when the blind rage kicks in. There is no way to explain – either in English or Pulaar – why I want to keep ornamental weeds in my douche to maintain the illusion that I’m bathing in a tropical paradise without sounding like a lunatic. Just the same, I spent the rest of the day bubbling with irrational irritation. Not anger that they’d acted maliciously or really done anything wrong, but that they just didn’t get it.

My emotional deja vue harkens back to the hayday of emotional angst – high school. Remember that feeling when your parents just didn’t understand? For me, it wasn’t the rare occasions that my parents got mad but the absolutely infuriating times when they were being nice. Their attempts at being helpful just highlighted how phenomenally out of sync I thought we were, what with my extremely complex teenage emotions. That’s the exact feeling that I get here – frustration with my complete inability to express myself, my family’s ignorance to the fact that there’s something I want to say and the sneaking suspicion that even if I could put my feelings into words, I would sound just as crazy and irrational as I feel.

I have no doubt that my family here feels the same way about many of my actions, and in a cross-cultural experiment like this I don’t think there’s a way around it. I realize that most of my frustration – which I can acknowledge is unfounded even in the throws of it – comes from other factors. Still, between the cultural chasm and language wall, I can’t help but feel like a 15 year old again looking across the car at my mother and thinking, “we are from completely different planets.”

Sunday, October 23, 2011

Crazy Train

In America, I think I’m pretty sane – almost even keeled to a fault. Here though, I think there’s something in the water (besides amoebas) that makes us all a little crazy. Every volunteer I know experiences the same cycle of daily highs and lows. Not just good days and bad days, but good hours and bad hours, good minutes and bad minutes that come and go with the flip of a switch. My morning can be humming along, bright and sunny as could be when one off-hand comment of “you can’t speak pulaar” or hiss in the marketplace (a not-always-rude but 100% annoying occurrence) sets me off. Back home, it was only once in a blue moon that I really wanted to throw a right hook at a perfect stranger, but these days I find myself practicing more self-restraint than I’m proud of (and sometimes practicing no restraint at all, saying whatever I feel like because I know no one will understand me). That’s not to say I’m unhappy every day, just more riled up than in a previous life – in the words of another volunteer “this country reveals parts of myself that I didn’t know existed.” Many of those parts are good, some are bipolar.

As I approach the 6-month mark in village, these highs and lows seem to be dissipating and I feel less crazy day-to-day. Hopefully by the time I get back to an English speaking country my habit of telling people off in public doesn’t end up with me getting socked in the face.

Saturday, October 22, 2011

Busy Week

So much went on this week, I don’t know where to start! After spending two days in Kolda (city) writing my well grant and doing other paper-work/life-organizing I headed to the eastern part of Kolda (region). I went with Sharon to visit our friend Sarah in her village of Sare Coly Sali, do some training-group catching up and watch a project of a second year health volunteer, Charlene, nearby. Sharon, Sarah and I pretty much spent two days in tears laughing at each other and one afternoon at a nutritional porridge-making demonstration. Charlene is in the middle of a huge project in six villages where she works with women’s groups to teach nutritional porridge making and other things nutrition-related. The demo was great – very clear and something I’d love to do, albeit on a smaller scale, in Sare Sara. And to top it off, the peanut butter-banana-millet porridge we made was delicious.

After two days out east, Sharon and I decided to pinch a few pennies (aka save $6) and bike back west to the finale celebration of Kelly’s relais training (I went to one of them a few weeks ago, another great event I want to copy). The bike from Sare Coly to Thiewal Lao is about 78 kilometers and took us just over 4 hours. Luckily the morning was cloudy and with a brief midday rest in Dabo we made it in one piece.

Wednesday was the big fete at Kelly’s health post. The event was mostly run by the health post ICP (head nurse/semi-doctor/master in chief) and a trainer from World Vision, who are both excellent. The event included skits put on by the new relais as well as demonstrations with anti-mosquito neem lotion, nutritional porridges and condoms. In true Senegalese fashion there was a huge speaker system, incredibly loud gas generator and no concern for scheduling.

After five days away I finally made it back to Sare Sara Wednesday night, only to turn right around Thursday morning and head back to Dabo for Tigi’s first visit with the vet. After so much biking earlier in the week I opted to brave a car and luckily she was incredibly well behaved on both buses – even though she shook like a leaf half the time and got me a few crazy looks from other riders (who, for the record, had much more annoying chickens/goats/babies while Tigi was perfectly silent and stayed on my lap the entire time). Kelly met us in Dabo with her dog Kindi but our grand plans of a puppy play-date were shattered as they spent the entire day snarling at each other. Overall it was a success though, and now Tigi is one rabies shot down.

I finally got one day back in Sare Sara to do laundry, scrub my hut, greet everyone in town and meet a few visiting missionaries. Now I’m back in Kolda preparing for another week of traveling - up to Thies for our health summit on Monday, then a few days off at the beach, Halloween in Tamba and then a potential visitor (Maria) in Dakar.

It’s going to be a crazy next few weeks with lots more travel, holidays and projects starting but it’s nice to feel like I’m getting things done, doing semi-real work and pleasing my village - they give me a hard time for being away butt are always supportive when I’m off seeing other projects that I can bring back.

Saturday, October 15, 2011

Grant-ed


Hi folks. I just submitted my first grant for a well improvement project in Sare Sara and a few of the small surrounding villages. The organization I submitted to is called Water Charity and they fund a ton of projects for Peace Corps Volunteers throughout the world. All of the projects are water and sanitation related with a limit of $500. Check them out here: www.appropriateprojects.com.

Here's a picture of what we're hoping to fix:

I'm hoping the have it all done by Thanksgiving and then do a second phase in the village where our health hut is located.

Friday, October 14, 2011

The World According to Koumba

My muraling endeavors have reached a pinnacle. The world map at the community center is finished, and while it wasn’t as big as I thought it would be, it still took 4 days to complete. I may be retiring my paint brushes for a little while.

Here's a (reverse, whoops) time-lapse look at what it takes to do a 4-by-6 foot mural...